Monday, May 23, 2011

Sista's start with a friendly hello...............

Why is it that women especially (African American) women have a hard time supporting each other. I watch sit and watch women walk pass each other and don't utter a word. No hello, good morning, etc...oh but she will look you up and down to check our your attire. What is this? I really have a hard time with this. Ladies, why is it so hard to speak or even giving another sister a compliment? You see that sister sitting at the bar with some fly shoes on, instead of saying nice shoes, you'll find something hateful to say. Oh let's not forget about the sister heading up your department. And why is it that you and the other AA women working in the department have a problem with her? I've heard it one to many times...she's changed since she made manager. Well guess what if she didn't change she would no longer be in that position. Instead of you being proud to see another sister move up your one of the ones eager to see her fall. Ladies we have to do better. How do you expect to get respect when you don't give it? Do me a favor. When you see a sister tomorrow...start by speaking...a quick hello will do. Next, how about a compliment, nice shoes, cute hair do. Bigup another sister and you will see how good it feels and believe me you just might make someones day.

I'd love to hear from you all when you see the reactions you receive from that sister, and maybe even a co-worker.

VA Gal

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